Why most Relationships fail?

Why most Relationships fail? 

Today we will talk about relationships because, the whole world rests on relationships. They are of different kinds. There seems to be a difference between father-son relationship and husband-wife relationship, but still there is one similarity in all relations, at first there is a sweet and dear relationship, then later it seems bitter. Is it not true? Don't most of our relationships become burdens later on in life? And we just wanna stay alone. But why does this happen? What exactly is a relationship?

What is relationship?

Some relationship is based on love and other relationship is based on profit. Yet why do all relationships break up in the end? We were talking about relationships, the meaning of relationship is found in the word itself. Look, when only one person is tied with the other, it is called bondage, but when two people are tied to each other, it is called a relationship. For instance, there is no relationship between a horse and horserider because there only the horse is tied, the rider is free. 

Reason for failure 

Two people live the same way in a relationship. That is, both people get something in each relationship. For example, if the father raises the son, then the son gives love and pride to the father. When the son grows up and takes care of the father, then in return the old father gives him guidance to lead life. The same happens in every relationship. If there is an inequality of such exchange, then it is an illusion. In fact, there are no inequalities where relationships exist. If there is no equality in a relationship then it becomes a bondage for the other and from here bitterness takes birth.Whenever one of the two people think their contribution to be more importance in a relationship, then the relationship becomes raw.

What to do?

See, breaking up relations is not the ultimate solution. This could happen with you in other relationships also. If you really want to mend things, look at all your relationships and test, if there is bitterness and then you will definitely find that either your or your partner's ego has increased. Whenever the ego of one increases in a relation, it becomes a burden for the other. But be very honest in this because others ego is clearly seen, the one that is missed is our own ego. Just like demanding for love acts as poison, the ego is poison for a relationship. Good luck!