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The way to Always be Yourself and Live Happily

                         No more Pretense, just be Yourself

We will talk about pretense which comes in our life without being called, like, nobody agrees that he is a pretender but we have millions of them around us. And this mainly takes birth from insecurity and jealousy. For example, suppose your neighbor earns in millions and buys new watches, vehicles etc every month and shows off. You do not earn an equal income but in your mind looking at him, you get a longing that "I am not less than you". We never think that the unknowingly super deadly disease of pretense and glossiness has caught us. Have you ever thought about this show off?

This pretense is nothing but a mental illness. We have often found intelligent people trapped in this trap. It does nothing else but takes away your understanding power from you. And prepares you to jump into a blind race that has no meaningful end.

Let me give an example. Your income is around one million per month but your neighbor's income is five million a month. And your neighbor makes a show of one million every month. He eats in expensive hotels every week. Now you jump into the court without thinking and walk like your neighbor. In imitation of it, you start traveling by airplane instead of traveling in a simple way by train or so.  Forgetting your income and expense ratio, you come down to the competition of neighbor's expenses and keep the grandeur in mind. You want to live as your neighbor is living. And then after a few months, everyone can easily sense your difficulties occuring.

Its not that you can't escape this trap of pretense. Instead of focusing on what neighbors or relatives are buying, focus on how much money is behind their purchase and how much pretense is there. You should also understand your neighbour is also saving the four million which is left with him but you are losing everything. Once this simple mathematics is understood, then in life, you will never be caught in any kind of show off. And if you really wanna live a lustrous life, work for it, work for it day and night and you'll get what you want. Say no to pretense and just be yourself and improve yourself everyday to bring out the best of you.