What is Ego?

What is Ego and what should your attitude be towards ego?

What is Ego according to you?

All the learned people of the world always say that ego is the enemy of man, it is the poison of life and root of all quarrels. We believe what they say but we are not able to get rid of our ego and the reason is that when ego comes in the frame, we get some sort of confidence and we are able to do things easily, it is kind  of  the driving force of life, ego is the challenge that makes us successful in doing something. If there is no ego then we will not be able to do any work............That's what we think. But that's not true.

The problem with Ego

Then there is another dilemma. We are able to see the ego of others very easily, but that is the same when it comes to ourselves. We are unable to often see our own ego. We call our ego either confidence or anger. So how can we cut such a rope which is not visible! 

It also happens that another's ego awakens the ego inside us. And there is one thing that everybody should know, that when we fall with our chest down  on the water level, the water hits, the water retaliates instead of giving way. So its' very stupid to be egoestic because of someone else's ego.

The effect of Ego on us 

It is also difficult to get rid of the ego because we get happiness due to ego not only in the time of victory but also in defeat. It is understandable to be happy at the time of victory, but at the time of defeat, we never accept our defeat obviously because of our ego, which brings us happiness. Is it not true! Ego is the enemy that makes a person really very lonely in the world. It gives a feeling of happiness but actually fills the life with sorrow. 

The actual meaning of Ego and how to overcome it

People might think that ego is just a rigid desire to win, but thats not true. In reality, ego is not the desire to win, but the desire to live. The people who actually experience this will be able to understand. At such times, people often feel that their existence is in danger. They do not have control over themselves, they just have to defeat the front man. They think that if they lose to the front man, their world will come to an end. But the truth is that there is never actually a threat to existence. Life always gives another chance and that's why ego is never really needed. So, don't be so rigid and take a chill pill and always use your brain when ego comes in your way.