How to overcome Jealousy?

How to overcome Jealousy?

The topic we are going to talk about today is Jealousy. This feeling is somewhat unstoppable, because even if we try to stop it, a little bit is always there. And chill, because its common . We don't have to stop it, because, we are humans and jealousy is an emotion but we should definately khow how to control it. You would find my words  a bit harsh. Consider my point and peep inside your mind and ask yourself if this is not true.  Right now you can be absolutely honest because no one will judge you here.

The feeling of Jealousy

Seeing someone's success or happiness, what is the first emotion that awakens in our heart? Well, you can also be happy but......Whenever someone achieves success, we greet him from the front, but do we not say in our minds that the person in front is not worthy of that success. Exactly this feeling is called Jealousy. Does it not mean that you are not happy in his happiness? Does this mean that you would be happy if that success would not come to that person? This feeling may vary from person to person, in some it would be a little and in some it would be huge. But why? 

Reality is always overlooked

In reality, we never even tried so much to achieve that success, we did not even dream of that thing, yet our mind gets filled with envy. We are happy to see the suffering of others and sad to see their happiness. Stop once and ask yourself, are you really like this? No. But what we actually do is that, then we leave our happiness and take on the stupid feeling of jealousy on our  forehead. So what is this jealousy that consumes our happiness without any reason?  Now we atleast know that jealousy is the secret part of our heart (about which we don't tell anybody). We completely understand that jealousy is not right, but it still awakens in our heart in such situations. It sometimes seems impossible to keep jealousy in check  because it is not something that always remains in our heart. It only comes and goes when someone else is in limelight (obviously because of their achievements) . 

The reason behind

The only way to get rid of jealousy is to become familiar with the root of jealousy. There is no better treatment than sensibility for jealousy. So just be sensible. 

Okay, what is jealousy?  Where did you take birth from?  Have you ever thought about it? Whenever someone gets any happiness or success, his life changes. His level in society rises. Even if it is a small achievement, people at least greet and give attention to that person. For some time, that person becomes the center of attention of everyone and at the same time no one even looks at us. This is the main reason behind our jealousy; we start feeling less important. Isn't it true?

How to get rid of Jealousy

Why is there always such desire in our mind that everyone should  only see us. That we always have to remain the center of everyone's attention. I mean, what is gained by remaining at the center of attraction ? 

As long as we are at the center of attention, we feel that we are important, our life is not wasted, and that we can do something. In fact, we always measure our importance from the point of view of society. But there has to be change in the view of society. Always remember one thing, being in others attention is not our birthright. It is good on their part that they give us attention, so don't keep any expectations for it. When the evidence of our meaningfulness comes from our heart itself, that is, when our heart is filled with confidence, then the part of jealousy itself goes away. Jealousy is really nothing but the lack of confidence in the heart.