How to deal with insult?

The Philosophy behind Insults: How to handle Insults?

In Reality.....
Have you ever wondered why people insult one another? By the way, we also insult others a lot without any reason and we are insulted too many a times. There is no one who did not knowingly or unknowingly insult anyone. Whoever is strong in any subject insults the weak. The elder insults the younger may be for doing something in a wrong way, the younger insults the elders may be because the elders are not very technofriendly. The boss insults the workers under him. Whatever the reason might be, whoever is strong in any field insults the weak. 

It's Effect on us
If we are powerful or outspoken, we fight against insult and if we do not have the power to fight, then we bear the insult. We make ourselves weak and helpless, we feel small, and it seems as if our soul is crushed. When someone is insulted or humiliated, he realizes his dependence on others which makes him feel inferior and this feeling crushes him. Gradually he becomes more and more weak, he gets used to this torture, and his confidence is destroyed. And when there is no self-belief, then man tends to just escape from reality. He only wants to get rid of the situation. And maybe this is the reason why man finds pleasure in drugs and alcohol obviously because at that time, he would not be reminded of his insults and all. As a result, man becomes sick from his mind and heart.

But why does anyone insult someone.
What the insulter wants to prove, have you ever thought about it? In reality, insulter insults someone to prove his weakness, to show that he are more powerful, that is, the abuser tries to prove himself strong. This shows that the insulter is not really convinced of his power. His power is not trusted by him. By challenging others, he tries to gain confidence in his power. Is it not true? Take a pause and think about it. Whenever someone insults someone else, he only reveals that he does not trust his strength.

What to do!
When we try to change things, the world seems to be an ongoing struggle, a war that never ceases. We consider everyone who comes close to us as a rival, even if it is someone very close to us. We constantly feel that we have to prove our strength otherwise we will be exploited.

If you have noticed while reading, then you will know that both, the one who insults and the one who tolerates insults, both lack in self-confidence. The person who is insulted, should consider his abuser as an ally and he should learn what is missing and he should improve and improve himself, rather than feeling inferior. But remember, you have to work on yourself to make yourself a better individual and not to prove anything to anyone.

I also want to add that, the fact that you have been emotionally challenged doesn't pardon your duty towards yourself, your family and the people around you. I want to assure you that you are much more than you think now and that you can actually achieve anything that you once dreamt of. When we were born, all of us were equal, but what we are now is because of the environment around us. And only you can make your life your way.

To the rest, i would like to say that you have to have self-belief. If you are stronger than others in any field, you should be content that you are not in the weaker section. You don't have to always introduce your power and let others down. You should help each other.
To conclude i would like to say, One whose heart is full of confidence and self-belief, he neither tolerates nor does he insults.