How to not feel Inferior : Inferiority Complex
About inferiority and superiority
So, today we will talk about inferiority. Look, one thing is clear, that, be it a person who feels inferior or one who is bound by superiority, both of them cannot see their real image in a mirror called society (Society means people around them). The people who take themselves superior do not consider anybody's advice or suggestion, that is why they fail in life. On one hand there are people who live in a closed sense of inferiority. Their vision is only towards the society and they change their path by accepting every perception of the society as true. Whereas those who consider themselves superior feel that they do not need the suggestion of anyone, which is why they then tend to fail.
Effect of inferiority complex on us
We were talking about inferiority. To explain this in detail, i'll tell you a story. I think many of you might know about this story. So, once a father and his son were going to sell their donkey in a distant city. Someone said on the way, "look at the three donkeys. Oh bro! if they have the donkey then why are the father and son walking? Hearing this, the father made his son sit on the donkey. After covering some distance, someone sarcastically said that the son is so generous as he was himself sitting on the donkey and making his old father walk. On this, the son got down and made the father sit on the donkey. On moving some distance, someone said, what kind of father it is, sitting on the donkey himself and driving the son. Hearing this, both the father and the son sat on the donkey. Then, someone said that how can they both sit together on the poor donkey. After hearing this, they themselves got down from the donkey and tried to pick the donkey up. The donkey slammed and kicked both of them and broke their ribs and ran away...... Don't people who are bound by inferiority complex do it?
In reality how to deal with inferiority
Sometimes our whole decision is based on people's perceptions. We spend our lives thinking what the people of the society will say and change the flow of our lives by listening to the words of other people. Such inferiority complex does not allow us to succeed in life. It is true that there is no better mirror than society. For introspecting ourselves, it is very important to look at our reflection in the mirror, but it is also true that the mirror also has it's limit that it shows the reverse picture.
It is very important for us to make the reverse picture correct, in order to have a clear picture of ourselves. This means that it is very important to listen to the society, at least to know our flaws, but according to our point of view, we should do what is right for us without just getting into other's words. People bound by inferiority complex always make their decision based on the talk of the people of the society. In contrast, people tied to the superiority completely refuse to listen to the society.
Solution
The simplest solution for inferiority complex is to give importance to our attitude as much as we give importance to the attitude of society. Knowing both, our strengths and limitations is equally important. I can say one thing with full surety that if you have to do something in life, then confidence is very important for it, it is very important that we trust ourselves, otherwise despite having the ability, you will end up being nothing more than a sycophant.





That was really good
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